“To believe in limits is not to ignore possibility but to embrace it.  To ignore limits is simply to deny what is.  All of life has limits….It is a great lie to believe all limits are to be avoided.  Limits give life context and meaning.”  pg 124-125

“The gospel of the positive is half a gospel.  I recently attended a popular seminar that proclaims to its participants, ‘Yes you can!’ But I say, from time to time, ‘Perhaps, you can’t!’ And that’s a good thing, because in limitation, in loss, comes perspective, guidance, appreciation.” p 209

Tom Shadyac, Life’s Operating Manual with the Fear and Truth Dialogues, Hay House, Inc. 2013